Ameilos (To Toil): An Educational Priority

A key principle in the Mitzvah of learning Torah and all Mitzvos that call us to action is embedded in the first words of Parashas Bechukosai. Chazal teach, “You shall toil in Torah”. This precept places the emphasis on effort and exerting oneself to fulfill and not on fulfillment of itself. In other words, to toil and make an effort is in of itself fulfillment. This statement is one of many that Chazal made reinforcing the message that process, how one serves Hashem, is greater than the ultimate achievement.

Another powerful example is the statement made by Ben Zoma in Pirkei Avos (4,1), “Who is considered a Chacham, one who learns from everyone”. Clearly, the focus of his statement is on process, a wise person is someone willing to seek knowledge from anyone, and not someone who accomplished some significant achievement.

Given the importance of this principle in our service to Hashem, it begs the question, how are we preparing our children for this life outlook? It’s safe to say, a vast majority of parents and teachers place great importance in effort by children. Just ask them. Yet, society at large, our homes and schools send a different message. Consistently, conscientiously and sub-conscientiously, verbally and non-verbally, children receive the message that achievement holds sway over effort.

I encourage all readers to be reflective on this dilemma. Review the writings of HaRav Michel Yehuda Lefkowitz, Z”L and other Torah Sages on the topic of “Amala Shel Torah”. I also suggest the popular book “Mindset” written by Dr. Carol Dweck.  Her vast research finds that emphasis on effort over achievement is a powerful motivator and the key to high achievement.